jerkidiot:

who the fuck decided the spelling for restaurant

French. I mean tha’s a French word so some French dude maybe. And it makes sense in French. As far as French can make sense obviously.

Yeah, I just said French 5 times, well 6 now.

So yeah , basically I was going to sleep because it’s 1AM here. But before , I just check a few things like my emails and stuff , and especially the ones on interpals .

It was fine until I received this one : “coucou ça va ? 

il me semble que g deja vu ta tête dans Jacquie et Michel tv XD “

Roughly translated , it means “Hi , how r u ? I thnk Ive already seen ur face on Jacquie et Michel tv XD” 

Not knowing this site and out of curiosity to see if my face was really there , I google it , and oh ! Surprise Surprise ! It’s a porn site ! Not sure about that, I try to google it a second , and a third time but nope ! No mistake, it’s a fucking porn site .

So with all the delicacy I have , I just answer a really correct and polite message showing my discontent with what he wrote to me . I just tell him how flattering and delicate it is of him to approach me this way like “Oh , I think I’ve seen your face on one of the numerous videos I watch online to have some pleasure because I can’t find a real woman because I’m a real jerk !” (well I omitted this part eventually) So I just explain to him that 1) No it’s not me , I’m only fucking 20 and not into that kind of stuff but thanks , really 2) it’s not the best way to intitiate a conversation with a woman -especially on this website which is full of creeps- to associate her with some random porn sites you’re used to and 3) That he should think about it, and really change his way because , it’s just plain wrong .

But guess what ? Mister got offended and went like “ I don’t like being lectured , sorry ! But I apologise since you didn’t appreciate my ways …”
W T F ? You’re not even sorry dude ! But well, I just brushed it off just letting him know that I am a woman and that therefre, he should listen to my advice for his own good and self esteem, and that honestly , I didn’t think “his ways” ever worked with someone.

The end ? Of course not ! 

He answered me saying that he felt “slightly insulted” (well, I don’t want to translate his bad French in bad English, just no) , that some women sent him some “kinky messages there and that they were amusing ,funny =p” and finished by saying , “Now, I just feel like you’re not even French !”
W T F ² ?? I must admit , I didn’t really get it at first , like why me being French is even involved in this issue ? 

But yeah , he just basically ended to piss me off so I just lectured him on how such messages , depending on the gender of the person writing it, didn’t have the same meaning and impact . Coming from a woman , it can be flattering . Coming from a man , not so much . I just felt reduced as “the girl that you’ve seen on a porn site” and not a person anymore. I mean , stop denying my identity like that even just making me less than a person, like a physical person, but just some random face on the internet you probably mabsturbate to . I mean , if I  was looking for THESE kinds of things , I wouldn’t be on a penpal site but on a dating site or whatever it is called ! 
Plus, YOU feel insulted ? Don’t you think you’re exchanging the roles there ? If you feel insulted, what should I say then ??
And what’s the link between my nationality and this ?? Really ?? If you really do think all French girls are sluts Marie-couche-toi-là ready to enter these kinds of little games , then you’re just plain wrong and should rethink your whole idea about French women , and Women in general .

Enfin bref, he just really fucking pissed me like I’ve never been for a while and … I don’t know, maybe I’m overreacting there , but I just couldn’t let him go like this . He was too much of an idiot and FUCK , that’s all.